Question: Is not denial and rejection a method?
Jiddu Krishnamurti – Have you ever denied anything, and in that denial was there a motive? If there was a motive, is that a denial? And then if there is a motive and if there is the denial which is born out of that motive, then it is a method. But we are talking of denial without a motive – to renounce, to give up doing something, without a motive. Don’t you know that? Have you done anything – acted, given up, put aside, renounced, denied, whatever you would like – without motive; have you ever done it? And when you do, does that bring about a method? Does that constitute a method?
You see, the difficulty lies in using words. For us, words are extraordinarily significant – we live by words, like the word India. We are now inquiring into a mind that is not a slave to words. Do we love out of a motive? Is there love when there is a motive? You will very easily say, “Of course not” – at least probably you would. How is it possible to love without a motive? – ”how” as a question mark, not as a method. First, you must discover if you have a motive and understand that motive, go into it; and the very going into it is the very denial of the motive. Then perhaps, you will understand what love is.