Trough the improving of the tone of our voice, we can improve even ourselves.
Human voice it’s not only a language medium, but rather a “sounding-board” able to show one’s emotional states.
A small child doesn’t understand the meaning of his parents words, but he instinctively responds to the vibration of their voices.
Sound is really important in our life. Just trying to remove the audio from a movie, we cannot absolutely follow the story, but if we leave only the audio and remove the images, the movie may still involve our attention.
To observe and control the tone, rhythm and oratory vibration of our voice, can lead us to a better degree of awareness and harmonization of our emotional states, besides resulting in time, a valuable tool for deeper communication with the others.
There are many classes and ways to learn how to use your voice, for example in the theater. It all depends on the teacher we meet and the depth of his knowledge concerning the argument.
But, we can develop by ourselves the habit of speaking in a quiet, calm and in confident way, trying to reproduce, while speaking voice vibrations who represents a relaxed and fixed degree of attention. Not a sort of De Niro’s “You talkin’ to me?”, but a more natural way of using our voice.